Monday, December 19, 2022

DEAR GOOGLE - a short story

 


By Roy L. Pickering Jr.


The day I met my father it snowed from early morning until sunset.  I worried that my mother would change her mind if the snow made it difficult to drive.  But the salt trucks enabled our trip to be taken despite the flurries, and she kept her word.  She always keeps her word.




People had begun putting up lights and a wide variety of decorations on their front lawns to celebrate the Christmas season.  I was particularly fond of the giant inflatable characters recognizable from my favorite holiday cartoons.  Two years earlier when my mother was temporarily out of work and could not afford the presents I had asked Santa Claus to bring, she confessed that he was only make believe.  There was no man from the North Pole who gave well behaved children whatever they desired.  The gifts I received were purchased with the money my mother worked hard to earn.  I could tell she would have preferred for me to believe in Santa Claus a little longer, but there was no way to avoid disappointing me in one way or another.  I was not too young to understand that she often sacrificed in order to provide for me.  It was obvious that she loved me very much, enough for two people, the mother who took care of my needs and the father who was little more than a rumor.  That is, until the day I finally met him.   

 

I was nervous and excited and frightened and thrilled about the idea of my first encounter with my father.  My mother rarely spoke of him, other than when I raised the subject.  On those occasions she would pause for a few seconds before responding to my queries, unless they were the kind that could be answered without judgment, such as how tall was he, or did he wear glasses like I did.  There were no photographs of him in our house, so I would imagine what I thought he might look like, then run to my mother for confirmation.  She said I most strongly resembled my father when throwing a temper tantrum, but I did not do that very often.

 

When replying to questions of personal opinion, I could tell that my mother was being selective with her words.  She did not have many nice things to say, but did her best not to speak poorly of him either.  Sometimes I saw anger in her eyes, other times sadness, but she was usually able to keep these feelings from her voice.

 

It did not take long to sum up all that I knew of my father up until the day I set eyes on him at last.  I had been told that he was usually out of work and low on cash.  My mother did not receive money from him for my well being.  In my nine years she had given me four gifts that were said to be from him – a football, a basketball, a baseball bat, and a Playstation video game.  I cherished each one of these items because they were seen as proof that he loved me, and that one day we would be together like a father and son are supposed to be.  When I did not receive a Playstation game system for my birthday, rendering the last of my father’s gifts of little practical use, my mother was treated to one of my infrequent tantrums.  The sports stuff caused less trouble, although I much preferred to draw superheroes or watch dinosaur movies than play sports.  This is something my father would have known if he was around, or at least bothered to ask about my interests.  Despite such evidence that he did not bother to find out much about me, I continued to inquire about him, adding to my collection of information bit by bit. 

 

I knew that he and my mother dated for six months, a period during which she was unknowingly pregnant for half that time.  Her announcement of my pending arrival hastened the end of their frail relationship.  His various other girlfriends had been unhappily tolerated by my mother, but the news that he would soon become a father was unacceptable to him.  I like to pretend that the vegetables on my dinner plate are pieces of chocolate in order to make my way through them.  It almost works sometimes.  Perhaps my father pretended that my mother and I belonged to a vivid dream that he could put behind him when the sun was out.

 

Some men are not comfortable around babies, according to my mother.  This was a notion I could sort of understand.  Babies frequently cry and they’re pretty much helpless.  They can’t walk or talk very well, they need to be fed and dressed and cleaned up after.  Babies are a great deal of work, especially to someone who prefers to avoid having a job.  As I grew older and my curiosity about the ways of the world grew stronger, I wondered with increasing frequency why my father did not visit me now that I was big.  My mother was either unwilling or unable to answer this question for me, and although I prayed like I was taught to in Sunday school, I did not learn what I wanted to know that way either.  As a last resort I took the inadvertent suggestion of my best friend Pedro, who happens to be the smartest kid in our class.  He told me that whenever he was trying to figure something out that nobody he asked knew, he would go online and enter the appropriate search words into Google.  Since he lives with both of his parents plus three older brothers and four older sisters, Pedro has plenty of resources to go through before heading to the internet.  My own set of circumstances being far different, at first opportunity I went on my mother’s computer and tried to discover why my father continued to remain at a distance from me.  I received a number of hits that appeared promising and printed out several web pages.  Sadly, reading through them led to nothing fruitful.  Or so I thought.  Three day later my mother sprung an enormous surprise on me.  We would be taking a trip to Connecticut the following weekend to pay my father a visit.

 

I eventually learned that my mother spotted the pages I had printed out, reviewed, and tossed in a waste paper basket with much frustration.  She realized what it was I had been trying to find out through my Google search.  It was not the Santa Claus I once wrote letters to, the God I routinely prayed to, or the internet I had desperately surfed that came through for me in the end.  Years later I would ask my mother if my impatient desire to meet my father had hurt her feelings.  She told me not to be foolish, that of course she understood my longing.  It was for that reason that she went against her instincts and took me on a long car ride as whiteness descended around us.  I would come to learn that this was the most difficult decision my mother ever made.  I would also understand one day that innocence is precious first and foremost because it can only be lost once.

 

He took his time answering the doorbell.  I feared he had changed his mind about meeting me.  Each second passed slower than the one to precede it.  I stared so hard at the door that it was a wonder I did not succeed in looking straight through it.  Then suddenly it opened and there he stood before me.

 

I have nearly every word my father spoke to me that day committed to memory, which is not really saying much, because as it would turn out, he did not have a great deal to say.

 

“Your mother says you wanted to meet me.  Well here I am, in the flesh.  What do you want to know, boy?”

 

I wasn’t quite ready to talk yet.  There was too much information for me to take in all at once.  Instead of launching an immediate interrogation, I scanned the small studio apartment for clues.  I thought that his home might tell me a little about who he was. 

 

His furniture consisted of a shabby sofa with stuffing spilling out of it and a coffee table that tilted to the right side.  On the coffee table lay a scattered collection of porn magazines, three long needles like you might find in a doctor’s office, and an overflowing ashtray.  His television was playing with the sound barely audible and the picture obscured by bars of static.  The show being broadcast appeared to be an old episode of Friends.  Next to the sofa, which I assumed doubled as his bed, an aquarium stood on a rusty stand.  I had a goldfish bowl at home on my nightstand.  Our first common interest seemed to have been found, but it did not strike me as being a worthy conversation starter.  That was because my father’s ten gallon tank was half filled with greenish brown water, and four dead fish floated on top of the muck. 

 

Several half eaten Happy Meals from McDonalds were littered about in every direction there was to turn, some of the remnants being dined on by cockroaches.  The room stunk like I imagined Hell must smell like in the summer when the air conditioning wasn’t working.

 

“You gonna say anything or what?”

 

I had envision that he would have an athletic build on account of the sports related gifts he had sent me, but he was exceptionally skinny.  He wore a snug fitting tank top and loose pair of jeans.  His arms were tracked with markings that I correctly guessed to have come from the carelessly placed needles.  My mother would later explain that he regularly poisoned himself with heroin.  Apparently the drug made him incapable of staying hungry long enough to finish a Happy Meal.

 

“You momma has gotten her act cleaned up,” he said.  “But ooh boy, back in the day she sure knew how to have a good time.  How about giving me some sugar for old time sake, Natalie?”

 

“You will not kiss, or touch, or hit me ever again, Jarvis.  Do I make myself clear?”

 

“Yeah, I got it.  Can’t blame me for trying though.”

 

With his attention focused on my mother for the moment, I allowed himself a long hard look at his face.  The shape of his mouth reminded me of my own when I stared in a mirror.  As far as I could tell, this was all I owed him.  It seemed unnecessary to be grateful for such an arbitrary trait, and with this realization, my curiosity evaporated.  I now knew everything I needed to know.  He was responsible for my existence, but this had become irrelevant to me.

 

“Merry Christmas, sir.  Can we go home now, Mom?”

 

“Yes, we certainly can.”

 

After waiting nine years to take a road trip of over two hours, we left my father after a mere five minutes spent in his presence, returning to the blanket of white that would accompany us home.  I have not seen him since, nor have I had any desire to.  Just as I understood that the seemingly unending snowfall would eventually cease and melt away completely in time, I also realized as I stared out the car window that the things a boy chooses to believe will not all become what he accepts to be true as a man.  

 

I am sixteen now, and in three weeks I will become a father.  It does not take much to become a father, as I have learned.  Considerably more effort has been required on my part to handle the stress of the situation.  Yet Jasmine and I have managed to remain together and grow closer.  When I first laid eyes on her sitting at a window booth in Burger King, my father having permanently turned me off of McDonalds, I sensed she would change my life.  My mother has always told me to trust my instincts, and on that day they were dead on. 

 

Perhaps Jasmine and I will get married someday, but we’re taking one hurdle at a time, with diaper changing about to become the next one.  I have not made the future any easier for myself, but nonetheless, I do believe that I’m prepared for whatever lies ahead.  My mother has educated me well about what it takes to be a decent and responsible man, and that should take me pretty far in this world.  As much as I have learned from her up until now, I know there is still much she has to teach me.  I will absorb her lessons faithfully and pass them down to my son.  This strikes me as being a solid plan.

 

I learned a great deal from my father as well, and it took hardly any time at all.  He showed me during his brief presence in my life what not to become, even though it was what I came from.  For the remainder of my life I will have no trouble remembering in perfect detail the day I met my father, for it was also the day that I decided to let him go.



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Monday, October 24, 2022

Shepherd.com

 

I was approached by the fine folks at Shepherd.com to put together a list of books exemplifying a theme of my choosing. Honored to be asked, I gave it my best shot. Understood was that my list would be in excellent company, since as you'll see if you peruse this fantastic web site, there are many excellent book compilations at Shepherd to examine. For example, there's this collection put together by Shannon Gibney on The best YA and MG books about the Black experience

After a good deal of contemplation I decided on a subject that I am frequently drawn to read as well as write about, and then I selected a group of novels that explore it in a most compelling fashion. It was not my intention to select only books by women, but just happened to work out that way. Now you can read my thoughts on five novels I categorized as:


Have you read The Mothers (Brit Bennett) or Silver Sparrow (Tayari Jones) or The Star Side of Bird Hill (Naomi Jackson) or The Girl Who Fell from the Sky (Heidi W. Durrow) or Breath, Eyes, Memory (Edwidge Danticat) yet? Do you agree with my take that they are among The best novels about Black family dynamics? Perhaps you have some alternate/additional suggestions? If so I'd love to hear your thoughts either here or at Shepherd.com.

Be sure to stop by Shepherd.com, check out some of the wonderful book lists, and perhaps you'll be inspired to make lists of your own.




p.s - Below you will find not just any old video from my booktube channel Roy's Book Reviews, but my 100th video!!!

 

 Happy Reading! And groovy listening.


Friday, September 9, 2022

Farewell Summer - Hello Autumn

@mudhousebooks Matters of Convenience will be #Free in #Kindle format at #Amazon for 1 week in mid-September. Consider it a #backtoschool #giveaway ♬ Give It Away - Red Hot Chili Peppers
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The Absolutely Amazing Adventures of Ava Appelsawse - available at Amazon

♬ original sound - Roy
Thanks for everything, Serena! Including your form of graciousness. Took long enough but happy to see arrival of this day. whatever you tell creatives will be largely ignored by them. After all, what's the point of being a creator if the art you make must be dictated by the silly whims of others? 








  MATTERS OF CONVENIENCE

Wednesday, June 22, 2022

BookTok


 


My newest social media obsession is TikTok. I avoided it for the longest because I didn't see the point of an endless stream of super short videos. I still don't. The pointlessness is the point. So now along with countless videos of zits being popped, young women shaking their money makers, snippets from stand-up comedians, silly gag reels and whatever else is on there, you'll also find some non-prize winning videos of mine. They are all book related for starters, which puts my account in the esteemed subset of BookTok. I don't think I'll branch out much beyond that, but one never knows. They don't feature me trying to be entertaining. Not yet anyway. If you wish to see videos that I star in you'll need to head on over to Roy's Book Reviews on YouTube. My BookTok videos are...  You know what - rather than me trying to explain them it would be easier if you just checked a couple out. See below for some examples. Enjoy the show!


@mudhousebooks Stop by my #booktube channel to hear my thoughts on a diverse selection of books. #RoysBookReviews ♬ Levitating - Dua Lipa
@mudhousebooks #BookTok #bookworm ♬ My Favorite Mistake - Sheryl Crow
@mudhousebooks Somehow somewhere at some time a bunch of great books have been banned by someone. Make it make sense. Here are some of my favorite #bannedbooks - #booktok ♬ Make No Sense - YoungBoy Never Broke Again
@mudhousebooks #BookTok #FirstLines ♬ Start Me Up - The Rolling Clones featuring Jimmy Lee
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So let it be written, so let it be read

♬ Lightning - St4bility
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Quotations from Matters of Convenience, Patches of Grey, and Feeding the Squirrels - by Roy L. Pickering Jr.

♬ No Ordinary Love - Sade
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Words from books by Roy L. Pickering Jr.

♬ Bad Habits - Ed Sheeran
@mudhousebooks Check out what I had to say about 5 great books at Shepherd.com. Actually 6 with Patches of Grey included. Happy reading! #booktok ♬ Baby I'm a Star - Prince
Unfortunately some bad often comes along with the good. If you thought nothing negative could result from BookTok, you thought wrong.





 


Wednesday, May 11, 2022

Roe vs Wade down for the count?




from Matters of Convenience